VI. The Lovers

VI. The Lovers

The Lovers card represents the complex archetype of love, passion, sexuality, and the ability to choose. Since this card has many meanings, mostly pertaining to love/relationships and the steps or decisions taken to get there, when reading remember to use the cards around it to help interpret the steps. This card can symbolize a union between friends, business partners, family members, or love interests and whether or not that union is working. Sometimes referred to as "The Choice" card.

Basic Associations:

Colors: Orange, Violet, Light grey and sometimes pink

Zodiac Sign: Gemini, or any zodiac sign with their compatible mate ex: Aries and Sagittarius, Taurus and Cancer, Gemini and Libra, Leo and Aquarius)

Element: Air

Deities: Aphrodite, Min, Cybele, Osiris, Demeter, Ba'al, Gaia, Cernunnos, Freyr, Rhea, and any other gods ruled by love and passion

Other: The story of Adam and Eve ending in the perfect garden

UPRIGHT- The Lovers upright brings union, harmony, love, and attraction. It can also mean finding the balance within oneself. It can indicate major life choices approaching and might be questioning the places and people around you. Trust your gut and don't always go for the easy route.

-Love, Soulmates, Kindred Spirits, Perfect Unions, Partnerships, Romance, Major Choices, Relationships, Desire, Sexual Connections, Shared Values

REVERSED- Don't blame the universe for a mistake you made. When this card appears reversed it indicates that you or someone around you/in a relationship with you has made a mistake and it's time to pick up the slack and move on. There will be some big choices in the future still that will immensely impact your life but remember, you control your life and that you can make it through.

-Disharmony, Trust Issues, Imbalance, Conflict, Disconnection, Lack of Accountability, Disunion, Detachment

LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

Upright- Obviously, the Lovers card is the best card to receive when doing a reading for love. It signifies a soulmate and union with happiness. If single be ready for a new and strong connection, if already in a relationship there should be some deeper progress!

Reversed- When reversed, the Lovers card when dealing with relationships can mean that you and your partner are not on the same page, especially when romantically involved. Whatever the reason is, it is time to move on because it is most likely very important for further down the road. It may mean that you or your partner are more emotionally involved than the other. If you are single, it does indicate a new relationship but maybe not for the right reasons or not as soon as you'd like.

CAREER & FINANCES

Upright- Dealing with careers and finances this card means that a partnership can help bring success for you and the company. It can also mean that a partnership at work may start to become romantic but be weary mixing business with pleasure.

Reversed- With multiple reasons, the Lovers reversed can be tricky. Remember that romance in the workplace situation, yeah, if one is arising, shut it down. It can also signify a disruption in a work partnership, or financially. Watch out you do not want to become materialistic or greedy!

HEALTH

Upright- When the lovers appear in a reading dealing with health, look to a strong support system. Having loved ones nearby can help with any situation.

Reversed- Do not get frustrated with your body right now if you have not been feeling well recently. You need to stop and understand why your body hasn't recovered. Be kind to your body and fight the sickness from within.

SPIRITUALITY

When reading this card during a spiritual reading, you will have to understand more behind the Lovers. The man represents our consciousness, earthly nature and Rational min. The woman represents the unconsciousness and life-force itself, hence the reason man turns to woman for guidance. It represents the travel from a human to their higher spiritual energy. (Conscious, subconscious, super-conscious) The description below is very vague, and you should take the time to understand what the problems are before finding a clear-cut solution.

Upright- When the Lovers appears upright you will find unity within oneself, regardless of the original reading reason. When finding harmony in the outside world you find it inside as well. Meaning if you are lacking in the health and subconscious area look towards the physical and natural elements of your life to strengthen the rest.

Reversed-When reversed, it usually means your focus on materialistic items or natural/physical world has made your internal health and wellbeing to worsen. Take the time to lean on your support system to help you get the things and time needed to make sure your mental and spiritual health is aligned.

The Lovers in any reading is always determined by a choice. Whether or not you attain union in yourself or in the natural world simply relies on your outlook. Be wary of people who may be using you but find a support system that you can count on because they could be the key to some of your darkest days.